Violence
The sexual abuse is a terrible crime, with serious consequences. It can be harmful for the life of the victim of sex (for the rest of his life causing anxiety or depression), and it can destroy a person self-esteem. These consequences can follow the victim through the rest of his life. If the abuse is often a family member, or is properly committed the sex involved, tend to the things to be even worse. The sexual abuse will make it so that you feel, without feeling scared and alone value. Unfortunately, many cases are not taken, especially if a relative is involved.
If you are a victim of abuse, please talk to someone of trust, as an adviser of his school. Do it by yourself, so that he can feel safe and be happy. Your body belongs to you and only. Nobody – even a father, not a relative, does not have a good friend – never have control on it.
Children and girls can be victims of sexual assault or injury
You may think, “but the sex feels good and people have sex all the time: why is so important to the sexual assault?” The sexual assault is not about the sex. He is on fear and control, and the changes in the victim through the rest of his life. His sense of security you will be robbed of something that may never turn around. So yes, that is a big deal. Can actually achieve it is almost as big a deal as the most popular.
Even follow if a person is not available during these crimes hurt physically, the emotional scars to last a lot of time in these situations, allow, and the people who have often attacked by fear, anxiety state have or he has sexual problems along its life .
Injury, injury, or by someone who you know, part of a complete stranger more common than sexual assault. The best way to avoid sexual assault, is to assure themselves of which you feel more secure and in control of the situation. If not, therefore, be assumed. Something they should not do what you do not want to do. You should not go drinking in celebration of college, and you should not go from the park with his groom.
Sexual assault is any sexual activity without consent, and that is the law against it. Sexual violence is not wrong to have sex with each other: It’s about being able to. He gives him the men, but almost always is a problem of men who tried to keep the power on the women.
If someone tells him that he has sexually abused or assaulted:
- Hearing.
- I thank them, to believe in you, and he recognizes the seriousness of what has to be to talk about the abuse.
- Tell them that you believe it. It is important for someone who was sexually assaulted, or wise, to create in the people what has happened.
- People rarely are they lying about his clever or attacked.
- To assist in his feelings, saying things as: “It seems that he was really terrible” or “I understand why you feel so terrible.”
- Share it with, that was not his fault. The only person to blame is the criminal.
- To help them to report the crime to the authorities. His friend to be. It is not easy for the victims, of which speak of being attacked. To go with them, ask for assistants, and offer to stay next to you on the whole affair. It is impossible to express with words what is important, what it is.
- This is one opportunity in life for you to make a big difference in the life of someone to make. So that there be strong to be there for them. (See low).
- To help them make the places where they can obtain agents (for example, I-centering of sexual assault).
If someone tells him that they have done, in such a way as to think that she is abusive:
- Hearing.
- To reject the change in the behavior.
- Speech and abusive comments to deal with.
- It helps in understanding that they are the only ones responsible for the violence, even when its pair is in charge of other problems in the relationship.
- Violence is a learned behavior and can be learned.
- To encourage them to agents to look for in a program of the job. The violence will not stay by themselves.
